Please read the following email exchange and provide your recommendations as to how one might handle this scenario:
Hi Lee,
I feel concerned with Casey's behavior at lunch time recess. For the past few days he has been playing a game in which the goal is to push the other person over. Clearly this is not allowed and I have explained to the group that they are not able to push several times.
Please talk to him and let him know this is not ok.
Thank you,
Classroom Aide
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Dear Classroom Aide,
Wow, thank you so much! I will talk to him for sure, I agree that is not appropriate nor encouraged.
Is he the instigator in this game or are there other boys playing with him? Are there younger children involved? I would like to know what questions to best ask him.
Thank you again for being proactive, and let me know if you do not see a change immediately.
--Lee
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Hi Lee,
Casey has been hanging out and playing with *Jose, Jesus, Josue and another boy I don't know.
They are all playing and active participants. Jose has continued to be defiant and it has taken an "umbrella" effect where the other boys follow his lead. They call it "cow tipping" and it is not ok.
A reminder that the lunch time supervisors (specifically, among all staff) need to be respected, and that the game needs to stop would be appreciated.
I will talk to Jose's mom also because it is not ok for this game to continue.
Thank you,
Classroom Aide
*Names have been changed to protect the victimizers